Published inGEN·PinnedMember-onlyGen X Will Not Go QuietlyWe have always lived loud, and we’re not going to change that — Gen X refuses to die with dignity. We will die in the spirit of Grace Jones and Poison, thank you, as we express ourselves in any way we see fit, whether that be in a regular suit and tie, or a full body of tattoos. Most of us are not…Music3 min readMusic3 min read
Sep 26Member-onlyMy Pronouns Are She/HerBut “they” is okay too — Despite the fact lots of older folks get their undergarments in a wad over pronouns, I’ve watched a lot of my Gen X and Boomer friends look on in absolute awe over the gender boundaries Gen Z is annihilating. In fact, more than one of my Gen X and Boomer…Gender2 min readGender2 min read
Sep 24Member-onlyRape is Basically LegalAnd I’m not even kidding — I don’t like writing these things. I swear I don’t. But lately I’ve noticed an incredible anxiety among American men about being falsely accused of rape and having their lives “ruined.” They talk about it in a panic, as if thousands and thousands of innocent men are locked up in…Rape4 min readRape4 min read
Sep 17Member-onlyShe’s Not Going Out With You for Free FoodJust stop it — Many straight men in this country feel as though they’re under attack lately. They’re not, but when you’re not accustomed to constant criticism, it can feel that way. These guys are getting angrier and angrier, and many of them assert today’s women are choosier and more into playing games than…Dating4 min readDating4 min read
Sep 11Member-onlyAbortion Isn’t MurderAnd it’s asinine to say it is — One of the most frustrating arguments (to me anyway) in the arsenal of the forced-birther is their assertation that abortion is murder. To me, and people who think the way I do, this is nonsense on its face, and not even worth debating. …Reproductive Rights4 min readReproductive Rights4 min read
Aug 22Member-onlyWhat is Musk Doing With Twitter?I refuse to call it X — At first, was a little difficult to figure out what the heck it is Elon Musk is doing and has done to Twitter, watching him make terrible decision after terrible decision about the company. …Elon Musk3 min readElon Musk3 min read
Aug 21Member-onlyAbortion Bans are UncivilTaking away people’s rights is the ultimate insult — It’s always funny to me when forced birthers accuse reproductive rights activists of being “uncivil.” They aren’t just talking about our views on abortion when they say that. Most, but not all, of them are religious extremists. If you dare utter a curse word in their presence they’ll let you…Abortion2 min readAbortion2 min read
Aug 20Member-onlyUnderstanding Racism As a White PersonThe disgust is in the details — As white Americans, we understand racism toward Black Americans exists, whether or not we want to admit it out loud or even to ourselves. …Racism5 min readRacism5 min read
Aug 14Member-onlyHelp Kids Like Ashley (And Everyone Else) Access Abortion CareWith Roe V. Wade gone, many organizations are trying to ease the cost of abortion access — When Roe Vs. Wade was overturned, I felt like many people: Sad. Angry. Shocked. Betrayed. But there was one aspect of it that horrified me more than anything, and that was the knowledge that it would affect hundreds and hundreds of little girls who are raped and impregnated in the…Abortion5 min readAbortion5 min read
Aug 13Member-onlyKansas, I Love YouBut your extremist politics is breaking my heart — If you haven’t yet heard, on Friday, August 10, small-town cops raided a small-town newspaper office — The Marion County Record — the publisher’s home, and even reporters’ homes in Marion, Kansas. Marion is a teeny town of only 1,900 people. …Politics5 min readPolitics5 min read