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Advice I’d Give My Younger Self About Writing

Practical advice about making a life as a writer

Amber Fraley
4 min readMay 10, 2022
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Writing, like most of the arts, tends to be low-paying and lots of work. Also like most of the arts, it’s often necessary to sell out in order to survive. It is still possible to make a living as a writer, and a few select writers — think Stephen King, JK Rowling, George RR Martin — will make a fantastic living, but those are few and far between.

There are a few things I wish I’d known when I was younger to make navigating life as a writer a little easier:

I wish I’d earned my degree in communications rather than creative writing

This one is a no-brainer, but at the time, I was super naive. The only reason I chose to major in creative writing is I didn’t know what else to major in. I didn’t think I’d like journalism (that would turn out to be a very bad assumption) and “communications” sounded too much like “sales” and “ad writing” to me. Of course, back in the early 90s when I got my degree, we didn’t yet know how computers would change the fields of writing and journalism. As soon as I graduated, I landed a job with a small newspaper and absolutely fell in love with journalism — and then journalism as a career kind of took a nosedive when the internet took…

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Amber Fraley
Amber Fraley

Written by Amber Fraley

Writing about abortion rights, mental illness, trauma, narcissistic abuse & survival, politics. Journalist, novelist, wife, mom, Kansan, repro rights activist.

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