And this whole "high value" crap you're buying into is also just wrong. I know plenty of women who have made more money and supported their husbands and boyfriends. If the women you're chasing won't sleep with you because you're not making enough money, then you're chasing after the wrong women. Trust me, there are PLENTY of women out there who will accept you for who you are, but you won't give them a second look because they're too fat, too ugly, too loud, whatever. It's exactly the same for women as for men.