Oh, I actually didn’t see the typo. His whole response made it sound like rape, to me. Especially with the age discrepancy. (Though I believe that’s a pretty common phenomenon for young gay guys, having a first experience with an older guy.) He didn’t indicate he enjoyed the experience. But he also didn’t indicate he *didn’t* enjoy it. As I said, it’s fine, it’s totally his call. I like your work!



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