Okay, so I've thought about this more. Blair's piece is sort of an attack on men, but certainly not an attack on men like you. I don't see it isn't so much as an attack on men as it is an attack on the absolutely ingrained notion that women are responsible for pregnancy. Way too many women and men continue to believe this. Obviously you are not one of those people. I think Blair's piece *is* speaking to her church and any church--and any person-- that continues uphold the notion that pregnancy is the sole fault of, and responsiblity of, women.