The toxic caricature of masculinity SHOULD be destroyed, shouldn't it? The same assholes who make your life hell make my life hell as well. I want to see men be able to express themselves, experience their feelings, and be involved family men. Men need to be allowed to be well-rounded people who aren't so oppressed by the "man box" for fear of being labeled weak or gay. White men need to get used to other people running things, learn to be respectful to others and get over their false sense of superiority.